What If the Life You Truly Desire Is Just One Decision Away?
Most people drift through life, moving from one day to the next, never stopping to ask themselves: What do I really want?
It’s a simple question—but one that can feel impossible to answer. Maybe you've felt the weight of uncertainty, wondering if you’re truly on the right path.
Maybe you've struggled with feeling disconnected from yourself, unsure of what drives you or how to create the life you crave.
I know what that feels like because I’ve been there too. Stuck in patterns that no longer served me, feeling unfulfilled despite checking all the so-called “right” boxes. But everything changed when I decided to stop waiting for clarity to come to me—and instead, I created it.
That’s exactly what I help others do.
I help you cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself, so you can develop self-awareness and strong communication skills that lead to more meaningful connections.
I guide you to gain clarity on your life path, aligning your actions with your core values so that every day feels fulfilling.
I show you how to master self-management, building habits that fuel your health, vitality, and success.
And when it comes to relationships? I help you transform not just your personal life, but your love life too. With my unique approach to dating and connection, you’ll finally break old patterns and move toward the relationships you truly desire.
You don’t have to keep wondering what’s next. You don’t have to stay stuck. Your transformation begins with a single step.
Start your journey today with my FREE workbook!
What If the Life You Truly Desire Is Just One Decision Away?
Most people drift through life, moving from one day to the next, never stopping to ask themselves: What do I really want?
It’s a simple question—but one that can feel impossible to answer. Maybe you've felt the weight of uncertainty, wondering if you’re truly on the right path.
Maybe you've struggled with feeling disconnected from yourself, unsure of what drives you or how to create the life you crave.
I know what that feels like because I’ve been there too. Stuck in patterns that no longer served me, feeling unfulfilled despite checking all the so-called “right” boxes. But everything changed when I decided to stop waiting for clarity to come to me—and instead, I created it.
That’s exactly what I help others do.
I help you cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself, so you can develop self-awareness and strong communication skills that lead to more meaningful connections.
I guide you to gain clarity on your life path, aligning your actions with your core values so that every day feels fulfilling.
I show you how to master self-management, building habits that fuel your health, vitality, and success.
And when it comes to relationships? I help you transform not just your personal life, but your love life too. With my unique approach to dating and connection, you’ll finally break old patterns and move toward the relationships you truly desire.
You don’t have to keep wondering what’s next. You don’t have to stay stuck. Your transformation begins with a single step.
Start your journey today with my FREE workbook!
I'm Adrianna Backus, and I empower women to cultivate a deeper relationship with themselves, paving the way for a more fulfilling and transformative love life.
People and relationships have always been my true passion. I thrive on connecting with others, learning their stories, and building deep, meaningful relationships. To me, the key to a fulfilling life is the quality of our connections, and I’m intentional about the time I invest in those I care about.
For over five years, I mentored and guided over 60 women, not realizing at the time that coaching was my calling. What came naturally to me—offering support, helping others find clarity, and strengthening their relationships—was something many struggled with. Encouraged by those I had helped, I stepped into this work fully, knowing it was something I couldn’t ignore.
A pivotal moment in my journey came after ending a decade-long relationship with my high school sweetheart. It was one of the hardest choices I’ve ever made, but it taught me the power of unconditional love, personal growth, and alignment. Through therapy, spiritual development, and coaching, I discovered a deeper purpose.
Now, I’m fully committed to helping others cultivate self-awareness, improve communication, and build strong, meaningful relationships—because everyone deserves a life filled with connection and purpose.
My Approach
How my approach differs from others in the industry...
My approach to Relationship & Life Coaching is different from others because it’s built on what’s actually worked for me. I’ve had a healthy and phenomenal 10-year romantic relationship, and I guide you based on what’s been successful, not just theory. Most relationship coaches share what they’ve learned from struggles and things that didn’t work—but I show you what’s worked for me. I’ve found easier, more effective ways to create healthy relationships, whether that’s in romance, with family, friends, or even coworkers. There’s no right or wrong way—just different approaches. My approach will help you date with more clarity, know exactly what you’re looking for, and build stronger connections with family, friends, and colleagues. With a background in psychology and communication, I focus on the most effective ways to communicate and create strong, fulfilling dynamics in all your relationships.
Work With Me
1:1 Personalized Coaching: Transforming Your Relationships, Communication & Your Life.
Personalizing your journey is the key to your transformation. 1:1 Coaching allows us to co-create and tailor the guidance, helping you to navigate your unique challenges with actionable insights and unwavering support.
By focusing on communication, relationship dynamics, and personal aspirations, my coaching empowers you to unlock your potential, paving the way for a life of fulfillment and connection. Click the "learn more" pink button below to schedule your FREE Discovery Call.
Mastermind: Coming in 2025!
Community is a strong force that empowers us and shows we are stronger when working together. We also know that healing happens in community. This is no different in a mastermind. Masterminds are created to enhance the power of community and multiple perspectives that are on a similar journey as you.
Success Stories
What Past Clients Are Saying
"First off, I just want to say, I had been upset and hurt for days about the whole situation, but after talking to you, I felt heard and understood. Whether you truly cared or not, didn't matter because it felt like you did, and that really helped me heal. The biggest takeaway for me was realizing that moving forward, I need to be very clear about what I want in the person I'll spend my life with. Things like morals, personality traits and values. And I definitely can't ignore major red flags anymore... One big red flag we talked about was someone not being able to take accountability."
Clyde S.
"I met Adrianna during a transformative time in my life, college. When I met her, she gave and showed so much wisdom and strength that I admired. I often looked for her. She has always been a shoulder to cry on, listening ear and is mindful of others in her responses. Not to say she will tell you what you want to hear. She isn't afraid to say what needs to be said, the hard truth with compassion and good intentions. Nothing is off the table for Adrianna. She is intentional and I love that about her. If you need a dependable and honest person to turn to, she's definitely your girl.
Brit P.
FAQS
Why hire a coach, and how can they help you?
Coaches are hired to help you reach your goals faster, with greater confidence and clarity, guiding you to your next level of growth—wherever that may lead. Our role is to empower you to make decisions, challenge you to explore different perspectives, and expand your awareness in ways you may not have considered. We often coach in areas we've personally experienced, which is what gives us confidence in our methods—they’ve worked for us.
Why do people tend to attract the same, or similar, relationships?
People often find themselves attracting similar or even the same types of relationships due to a lack of clarity and intentionality. Without these two key pillars, it’s easy to fall back into patterns that feel familiar to your nervous system. Bringing awareness to what you may be unaware of is the most important step in gaining the clarity and intentionality needed to create the life you truly desire.
How can a relationship and life coach be confident in their ability to deliver results for their clients?
In my experience, I help people achieve results by asking the tough, thought-provoking questions, meeting them where they are, understanding their vision, and empowering them with the guidance they need to get there. You’ll be challenged to step beyond your comfort zone, and that’s where the growth happens. The real question is: Are you ready for that challenge?